If in doubt, I refer to Sun Tzu:
It is said that if you know your enemies and know yourself, you will not be imperiled in a hundred battles;...
In warfare, as in mating, a few simple rules can save us from calamitous mistakes. Avoiding a hundred unsatisfactory encounters with women, looking for green lights, confused about body language, is easily done: ignore them.
No, I am not advocating completely rinsing women right out of your hair, that won't do at all. But a way to remain calm and unconcerned is to stop looking. This might not make much sense if you're a woman reading this, but consciously giving up the eternal pursuit of skirt (if only for a night) can be liberating for a man. It is similar to the day your mother says you can - after years of work - quit the piano lessons you loathed. Release, blessed release.
A man thusly at peace with himself has mental energy to burn. Avoiding the manic effect of trim-chasing mode lightens the heart, creating a sense of cool engagement with women. If she's interested, she'll talk to me. If she wants to kiss, she'll initiate. If she's discreetly handing your her underwear under the table, she probably wants sex.
See how easy that is?
Calm men, not on the lookout, will attract women. It hands us the decision - yes, or no?
Green Lights Part One, Green Lights Part Two, Green Lights Part Three, Green Lights Part Five.
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