Dating and being with someone should be as natural as breathing, shouldn't it.
Shouldn't it?
So if it's not that simple, why not, and why do we spend so much time working at it?
All successful relationships have one factor in common, which is a mutual fit of expectation and willingness.
Willingness is the lock into which we insert our expectation.
Expectation is the key we hope fits his or her willingness.
We all have a lock, and we all have a key. We're not only looking for the person with the right lock for our key, we're also hoping that person has the right key for our lock.
If you think the odds are bad for finding that person, be not discouraged. We all have the power to change our own lock and our own key. You decide whether you have one of those long, complicated, difficult to replicate keys, or whether you prefer a more simple style. Likewise your lock.
However, as with any endeavour in this universe, there is an element of luck - aka randomness - involved. You might have the most straightforward lock, and a standard (but secure) key, and still not find the one.
Not today, anyway.
Bottoms Up, Locksmiths.
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