Submission: Do Women See It That Way?

Part of the fun of spending a whole bunch of time thinking about sex and stuff is that I can ruminate without guilt on the following:

Given that sex involves men inserting themselves into women, is this a natural act of dominance?

Does this automatically mean that women are submissive?

If sex is the natural act of an aggressor working his way through the defences of his prey, does that necessarily mean that the man has more power?

Can the power in a submissive/dominant relationship actually tilt in favour of the submissive?


A concept with which I have some familiarity is "...leading from behind." It's the deconstruction of the famous saw that "...behind every great man there is a great woman."


The real question is whether she's fucking him from behind.





Bottoms Up, Strap-Ons.


wombat@kissnblog.com

Friday Fluffer - Spanking

I was reading Library Girl recently, she's fun. Really, quite fun.

Link to Library Girl.

Her kink is that she likes being spanked. I wondered why it is that a woman would so enjoy a bit of a spanking. And here's the best answer I found:

Link to Why would a woman want to be spanked?

Interesting title that: Taken In Hand.





Errr, Bottoms Up, Spankees!

Tie Me Up, Tie Me Down

The bow-tie is unfairly characterized as the neckware of fools and dandies, a misreading of the fashion in my opinion.

The men who affect the bow-tie are trying to look different, trying too hard because the bow-tie is a cliché that says "I'm trying to look different." They're obviously attempting to stand out, and everyone knows it...except the wearer, which confirms them as terminally un-hip.

If only the bow-tie was associated with restraint sex. From personal experience, regular neckties make perfect tools with which to tie a woman to the bed, or to restrain her arms or legs, or even to blindfold her. But bowties are a more perfect length, and you can always wear them the next day and keep the scent close to your nose.


Bottoms Up, Dominators!



Bow-tie sweater from here [link]

Can we leave the light on?

Laughable.

Can we leave the light on?

Well, yeah, otherwise how will I be able to see what I'm doing?





Bottoms Up, Ninjas!



Ronin thanks to [link]

Feminist Literature

Floating around the internet searching for dungeon equipment proved immensely time wasting. Not only are there VERY few vendors, the quality of the goods looks decidedly dodgy. And surprisingly there's not much of a market for second-hand (pre-spanked?) BDSM kit...although maybe not so surprisingly.

Hey, I'll give you fifty for the rack, the standing cage and the two wooden stingers.

What I did find was an enormous amount of porn, which, as we all know, was the reason hand lotion was invented.

One kink I don't understand is this thing of writing shit on a woman. I'm looking at an example now. She's wearing spike heels and a sweet spiked collar. Her master (presumably) used a felt pen to write what amount to instructions all over her. Big arrows point at her cooter saying "For Fucking". On her buttocks, similar arrows lead to her chocolate starfish with the words "Cocks Go Here." On her boobs is the instruction "Cum All Over These" and at various places she's branded a "Slut".

Ooookay.




Exploring Uma photo from here [link]

On your knees, bitch.

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