Monday, September 13, 2010
The Girlfriend Experience
I want to write something along the lines of:
The Girlfriend Experience is about the closeness of two people meshing at inter-dimensional levels for spiritual reasons.
But that doesn't ring true - the contradictory evidence in my life alone is overwhelming.
Maybe that's because the whole relationship-dating complex tends toward hard-bitten-ness as people age. We begin to appear as - or begin to look for - financial saviours or mental leaning-posts rather than specially connected individuals.
My golden age was from fifteen until twenty-one. Innocent of wordly motives, a girlfriend was just that - about having a girl as a friend. Girls are soft and smell great and feel different and look at shit differently. That's nice. I want one of them close to me, on my side.
Innocence. That's the key word, implying a voyage of discovery with someone. From innocence to knowledge. And then to BDSM, but only after a decent interval.
Girlfriend Experience illustration from here [link]
Labels:
bdsm,
chemistry,
clarity,
click,
fantasy,
fidelity,
girlfriend,
innocence,
singlehood,
the right person
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